I have talked about my dida on my blog and I often refer
her for her legendary culinary skills. But later I realized am not doing
justice to her better half, my Dadu (grandfather) who was the sole inspiration
for her cooking. Before my marriage the saying that way to a man’s heart is
through his stomach never made any sense to me. But I understand it now.
Dadu was a complete foodie and he always inspired and
supported his wife for whatever she wanted to do. He had a very busy job and
responsibility of a huge family but always took time to enjoy the smallest
pleasures of life. I still remember his smiling face when we all used to gather
during our vacations and every morning would request for something or the
other. The requests were small but he would put the effort to go to the market
and buy the things. We specially looked forward to his trips to the nearest
Town in the beginning of every month to collect his pension. As it meant rare
treats like pastries or Kwality ice creams for us. though he was very gentle
and level headed but my mother claims he was very strict during their growing
years. If anything to go by her stories we always found ourselves fortunate not
to witness that side of his persona.
He loved food and every aspects associated with that.
Early morning after having tea he will take the bajarer thole (market bag) and
his cycle and will go the market. He knew what goes well with what. So a
purchase of bottlegourd will always be accompanied by kucho chingri or tiny
shrimps. He remembered everyone’s choices, however small it is. So if beej kala
(Banana with big seeds, a rare fruit but sweeter than normal bananas) happens to
appear in the market that will definitely make way to his bag as a treat for
his eldest grand daughter. Dida often
stated that she never had to ask him to buy anything. Somehow he always
realized if anyone is in need of anything, whether it’s a cream for winter,
powder for summer or a regular wear blouse, it always came home with his daily
trips to the market.
When we grew up and entered collage we used to tease them
and tried to keep them apart just for fun. But hardly this happened and they
stayed away. But never in our dreams we imagined that they will follow each
other on their journey to heaven. Dadu died of cancer and within 3 months Dida
followed him, suffering from the same disease at the same place and in the same
condition.
I was not there when Dadu took his last breath in Kolkata.
Nobody informed me this unfortunate news as I was living alone in Delhi but
that same day while coming back from office I saw someone like my dadu in the
bus. He looked so similar and for some unknown reason it made me very
disturbed. Though that morning itself the Doctor’s confirmed that he was better
and could be taken home soon still I got down at Kalkaji Mandir. Prayed for his
quick recovery, came home, called my father and heard everyone crying….I am not
superstitious but thinking of that incident still gives me goosebumps. For a
longest time I was in denial of the fact that they are no more. Even now
whenever I visit that house the first thing that I expect to see is Dadu
sitting in the verandah at his favourite spot and greeting us with his happy
smile…I know that will never happen. But for a person who grew up expecting
them to be around always, its very difficult to accept the fact that the best
things in life are not meant for ever.
He last visited our home in Santiniketan in 2003 during
Monsoon and stayed with us for a whole month. During that time often he made me
go to a specific shop near our bus stop for some specific type of telebhaja or
deep fried fritter. This said person had a small shop and early morning he
would make many types of fritters, among which Dadu’s favourite was eggplant
fritter and pumpkin fritter. We used to joke if eggplant fritter is called
beguni (begun is eggplant in Bengali) then pumpkin fritter should be called
Dinglani, Dingla being the local name of kumro or pumpkin. The fritters from
this person were very famous as he would take the biggest piece of pumpkin and
eggplant and slice it lengthwise in a razor thin manner. I still remember how
we were fascinated with the huge fritters, some even 10”-12” long.
I don’t make deep fried stuff much at home and they are
very rare treats for us. Somehow this Sunday I just remembered all those
experiences and wanted to make it just the way dadu loved it. long thin pieces
of eggplant with a crunchy coating and softer inside, not to forget with a
extra sprinkling of black salt and a cup of ginger tea…
Beguni
(6 pieces)
Ingredients:
Eggplant: 1 medium, try to use the Indian variety as they
are thick and long
Chickpea flower/ besan: 3/4 cup
Rice powder: 2 tbsp
Chili powder: ½ tsp
Nigella seeds: 1/3 tsp
Bi-carb of soda: 1/5 tsp
Salt
Oil for deep frying
Water: ½ cup (approx.)
Method:
Wash and remove the stem of the eggplant. With a long
sharp knife slowly slice it lengthwise. The thickness should not be more than
¼-1/5”. Place them on a kitchen towel and dab to remove the excess moisture.
In a deep flat bowl place the besan, rice powder, chili
powder, nigella seeds, salt mix everything together with little water to make a
thick batter. The batter should be thick yet of pouring consistency, so do not
add all the water in one go. Keep adding and mixing and check the best
consistency.
In a kadhai or heavy bottom pan heat enough oil for deep
frying. Once the oil is hot use a serving spoon and take out a spoonful of hot
oil and mix to the batter. This is a very good tip to make the beguni crunchy
for a longer time. (Am following it from a very senior chef Ajoy who blogs
wonderful recipes at Thoughts from Ajoy). Using a whisk or a fork mix
everything together for a smooth batter. Beat it for a couple of minutes and
finally add and mix the soda.
Take one piece of eggplant, dip it into the batter to coat
both sides with it. using your finger tips take it out from the batter and let
the excess batter drip for a couple of minutes and then slide them in the hot
oil. Keep the flame on medium and fry till both sides are golden brown. Take out
and soak the excess oil on absorbing kitchen paper.
Serve immediately with an extra sprinkling of black
salt. This is a treat in itself for Monsoon accompanied by cup of hot masala
tea.
that was a lovely tribute to your dadu. the fritters are looking crisp and good.
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love the way they r cut..seriously tempted and the perfect timing wid the weather..love that plate too..want the whole platter..:)
ReplyDeleteLooks so delicious and makes me hungry!.
ReplyDeleteohhh...love love love...con't tell you how much I love Begunis of all the telebhajas.
ReplyDeleteyummy fritters...nice way to eat veggies as snack....
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hmmmmmmmmmmmm tempting egg plant fritter.
ReplyDeleteloved reading this post... nice looking fritters too
ReplyDeleteLoved your write up about your dadu. Also the begunis look excellent and well decorated.
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It's all about remembering the happiness our loved ones brought to our life even if it means thru food, plus this telebhaja is your Dadu's fave. Look up for him in the stars, he is smiling at you!
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simply superb...
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A wonderful and touchy write up on your Dadu. Excellent presentation Sayantani. Perfect and delicious begunis.
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I was myself having goosebumps reading your story. Such a lovely and endearing tribute. Loved the begunis and looking forward to the dinglani:):)
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ReplyDeleteJust mouthwatering...looks delicious!
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